RELATIONSHIIP(MUST READ)

Hmmmmm, okay girls let's
have a sister to sister talk.....
Marriage is a veryyyyyyy
serious business, yes it is, so
before you enter into it you
must have done all your
homework regarding your
future hubby...
It is true that not all
relationship leads to
marriage...
But maybe we as girls
should start looking at it as
if every relationship we
entered into can and might
lead to marriage.....do ing
this will save us a lot of
heartaches and put a stop
to wasted years for both
we and the man we are
dealing with..
Many of us enter into a
relationship without
thinking of tomorrow, we
don't bother to ask
important questions and
find out about the man we
let see our nakedness....we
protect our cellphones
better than we protect our
bodies, minds and hearts...
Before you give a guy a
chance, find out his
intentions towards you,
find out where he lives,
find out his work, find out
his religion, find out about
his family, where is he
from....all these are very
important my sisters..
True, love conquers all, but
lets be wise, love will not
pay your bills......love will
not change traditions.....
..many of us are so rooted
in traditions that we use it
as a bargaining chip over
those we love....
Religion is also another
tradition that is not easy to
let go, yes I called it
tradition, because many of
us are born into a religion
so that is what we also
claim,,,,it is all we know, so
wether it's wrong or right it
is ours and it will remain so
till we die...
Unless you are fully ready
and willing to let go of
your religion....don 't date
someone of another
religion....let s not fool
ourselves, you cannot date
a Christian, fucked him,
spend his money then
when it's time to settle
down you suddenly
remembered that you are
of a different religion.....yo
u've just broken the heart
of someone you claim to
love and worse, you just
wasted precious years
when you could have been
building your life with your
true mate...
Some people's tradition is
tribal mark, you knew this
you dated him, married
him, have his child... then
when it's time to put mark
on your baby's face, you
lose your mind.....you
should have thought about
all these before saying I
do.......
Some people's religion does
not accept blood
transfusion, you knew this,
yet married him only to cry
later......
Yes! Love is a beautiful
thing, but lets not get it
twisted.....lea rn to love
with the heart, but take
your brain with you.....
You may say I'm
crazy.....but only like a fox...